Cot Death Babies - Sids

2008 - 2008
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Cause of DeathCot Death/Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
Visitors5,829 since 04/06/2008
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****THE BIG GIVE****

Host: The Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths (FSID)
Start Time: Monday, 07 December 2009 at 10:00
End Time: Friday, 11 December 2009 at 23:55
Location: Worldwide

We are delighted to announce that FSID has been chosen as one of the beneficiaries of the 2009 Big
Give MillionMatch Challenge!

This programme will match all donations made to FSID at www.theBigGive.org.uk between 7th and 11th
December pound for pound - a fantastic opportunity to raise much needed funds for FSID!

The money raised will be used to fund new genetic cardiac research which could lead to the UK’s
first ever screening programme to identify babies at risk of cot death. They could then be offered
preventative treatment.

If you are considering making a gift to FSID this autumn then please make a note to do so online at
www.theBigGive.org.uk between 7th and 11th December. Please also pass the word on, invite your
friends and family to this event, and let anyone who you think would like to support us know about
this wonderful opportunity.

Donations big or small will make a big difference. Thank you.

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X LIGHTS OF THE CHRISTMAS ANGELS ~ GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN X

**Everyone lights a candle for all the precious angels gone too soon**

Start Time: Thursday, 24 December 2009 at 14:00
End Time: Friday, 25 December 2009 at 14:00
Location: All Over The World

A event on Christmas Eve to remember all the precious angels gone too soon. Everyone lights a candle
at the same time so that the angels can see from above how much they are missed and how much we love
them x

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****NEW RESEARCH****

More than half of cot deaths happen when a baby is sleeping with a parent, a study has revealed.
Researchers said this could be linked to the baby's parent having been drinking or taking drugs.

Despite a dramatic drop in the rate of cot death in the UK since the early 1990s, experts are
advising parents to avoid dangerous co-sleeping arrangements.

The study was led by a team of researchers at Bristol and Warwick universities.

They studied all unexpected infant deaths - aged from birth to two years old - in the south west of
England from January 2003 to December 2006.

The parents were interviewed shortly after the death and information was collected on alcohol and
drug use.

A detailed investigation of the scene and circumstances of death was also conducted by trained
professionals.

Of the 80 cot deaths analysed, more than half (54%) occurred while co-sleeping compared to one-fifth
(20%) co-sleeping rate among both control groups.

Much of this risk may be explained by the combination of parental alcohol or drug use prior to
co-sleeping (31% compared with 3% random controls), and the high proportion of co-sleeping deaths on
a sofa (17% compared with 1% random controls), say the authors.

A fifth of cot death infants were found with a pillow and a quarter were swaddled, suggesting
potentially new risk factors emerging.

Lead author Professor Peter Fleming, Professor of Infant Health and Development Physiology at
Bristol University, said: "It is really important that parents should not fall asleep with their
baby on a sofa as it is very, very dangerous."

Please feel free to add the SIDS page to your garden and light candles for all the babies taken away
by SIDS ~ ''the silent killer'' please pray for all the babies and young children that have already
been taken away by this sad cause of death,which in many cases, like our own, leaves no answers to
why.
SIDS ~ thousands of babies taken away each year ~ millions of broken hearts x x x x

PLEASE STOP TO READ THIS PAGE AS NOT MANY PEOPLE KNOW THE TRUE FACTS OR EVEN WHAT COT DEATH IS

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May the winds of love blow softly,
and whisper for you to hear,
How much we love and miss you,
and wish that you were here
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The FSID Helpline calls are now free
Parents, families and professionals can ring for advice and support free of charge 0808 802 6868.

****IF YOU WOULD LIKE A PICTURE OF YOUR ANGEL AS THE MAIN PICTURE,PLEASE LEAVE A PICTURE ALONG WITH
A MESSAGE IF YOU WISH TO HAVE ONE****

The Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths is the UK’s leading baby charity working to prevent
sudden infant deaths and promote infant health. FSID funds research, supports bereaved families,
promotes baby care advice, and works to improve investigations when a baby dies. FSID runs a
Helpline (020 7233 2090) for parents and professionals seeking advice on safe baby care. The
Helpline also supports bereaved families. Advice for parents and professionals can also be found at

11 Belgrave Road
London
SW1V 1RB
Helpline: 020 7233 2090
General: 020 7802 3200
Fundraising: 020 7802 3201
Press office: 020 7802 3202

office@fsid.org.uk



Registered charity number 262191.

FSID-GIVING BABIES THE CHANCE OF A LIFETIME.


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Fans and cot death

6 October 2008

Statement from the Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths on ‘Use of a Fan During Sleep and the
Risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome’.

FSID urges great caution before parents rush out to aim a fan at their sleeping infants.
It is important to note that the use of a fan in this study had no effect on cot death risk when
parents followed the Reduce the Risk messages, eg slept their baby on the back, gave them a dummy,
prevented the bedclothes from covering the baby’s head, made sure the room wasn’t too hot. Only
when parents failed to follow the reduce the risk messages, a practice which FSID would not
encourage, did the fan have an effect.
It should be noted that opening a window, in a warm room, was almost as effective as using a fan.

In all, the message of the current study reinforces the importance, long publicised, of making sure
that the room where the baby sleeps is not too hot: 16-20oC is about right.

For more information on room temperature and FSID’s guidance please visit
http://www.fsid.org.uk/your-baby.html

Media contact:
Sara Green, Communications Officer, 020 7227 5210

Advice for parents to reduce the risk of cot death:
• Cut smoking in pregnancy – fathers too! And don’t let anyone smoke in the same room as your
baby.
• Place your baby on the back to sleep (and not on the front or side).
• Do not let your baby get too hot, and keep your baby’s head uncovered.
• Place your baby with their feet to the foot of the cot, to prevent them wriggling down under the
covers.
• Never sleep with your baby on a sofa or armchair.
• The safest place for your baby to sleep is in a crib or cot in a room with you for the first six
months.
• It’s especially dangerous for your baby to sleep in your bed
if you (or your partner):
• are a smoker, even if you never smoke in bed or at home
• have been drinking alcohol
• take medication or drugs that make you drowsy
• feel very tired;
or if your baby:
• was born before 37 weeks
• weighed less than 2.5kg or 5½ lbs at birth
• is less than three months old.
• Don’t forget, accidents can happen: you might roll over in your sleep and suffocate your baby;
or your baby could get caught between the wall and the bed, or could roll out of an adult bed and be
injured.
• Settling your baby to sleep (day and night) with a dummy can reduce the risk of cot death, even
if the dummy falls out while your baby is asleep.
• Breastfeed your baby. Establish breastfeeding before starting to use a dummy.

**PLEASE LIGHT A CANDLE FOR ALL THE BABIES AND CHLDREN TAKEN BY SIDS**

This page has been set up in remembrance to all the angel babies who have sadly lost their lifes to
cot death (SIDS)

Babies and young children are more likely to become victims of cot death then any other common
ilness or injury.
this is because at present researchers have no idea how cot death happens or why it only effects
certain babies or children, as a result they have no cure or any information on how to prevent a cot
death happening.

It dont matter if your rich or poor, cot death can take any child of any age. Being a family who
have experienced this tragedy (Alisha Marie ~ 2005 ~ 2006) we know how heartbreaking cot death can
be and the impact and strain it can leave on you.

Cot death affects every family member whever your the mum, dad, brother, sister, grandparent, auntie
or uncle.

The charity FOUNDATION FOR THE STUDY OF INFANT DEATH (FSID) looks into research into how and why cot
death happens.

Please support FSID as at present there are no real answers as to why or how cot death happens.

The Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths is the UK's leading baby charity working to prevent
sudden deaths and promote infant health.

FSID
11 Belgrave Road
London
SW1V 1RB
Tel: 020 7222 8001
Helpline 020 7233 2090
Website www.fsid.org.uk
Email office@fsid.org.uk
Registered charity number 262191

Cot death is a 'silent killer' it can take any child at any time.

Sadly we have to face facts: there will be other babies and children taken away by this terrible
cause of death before a cure can be found.

Cot death can also strike adults this is known as SADS (sudden adult death syndrome)

If you have been affected by SIDS or SADS in any way, it dosen't matter if your not the parent of
the lost child you could be a grandparent, Auntie, Uncle or even just a friend, please leave
messages to your children or photos of your children or share your experience of cot death if you
feel you need to talk to someone. Or just simply light a candle and pray for the children who have
already been taken away by cot death xxxx

Thank you for taking the time to read this page about cot death, please if you have a few spare
minutes please light a candle or leave a message.

Thank you to everyone who contributes to this page wherever its a few words or a few paragraphs, all
your support means alot and im sure all the angel babies and children are looking down from heaven
and will be very much appreciated also. with love and thanks xxxx

Also if you have a few spare minutes please visit our special angels page ~ Alisha Grebby ~ who was
also sadly taken away by cot death aged just 8 weeks xxxxxxxx


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PRAY FOR THE ANGEL BABIES AND CHILDREN TAKEN AWAY BY SIDS/SADS

PRAY A CURE WILL BE FOUND SOON BEFORE MORE CHILDREN ARE TAKEN


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Twinkle, twinkle little star
now we know just where you are
sitting in heaven up above
we send you all our love
miss you more then words can say
more and more everday
although your not here today
your never more then a thought away
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(¯`v´¯) OUR SWEET ANGEL
WHY DID YOU HAVE TO LEAVE US
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May the winds of love blow softly,
and whisper for you to hear,
How much we love and miss you,
and wish that you were here
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A tiny flower lent not given to bud on earth and flower in heaven

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If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home
again

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Though your smile is gone forever,
Your hands we cannot touch,
Still we have so many memories,
Of the ones we love so much

Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in his keeping,
While we have you in our hearts

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im sorry babies i havent been very good have i please dont think i had forgotten you it has just been so hard i can not promise that i will be on before christmas if im not please forgive me have a special angel christmas watch over those family that loved you and still do keep them safe in the next two weeks possibly the hardest for them lots of love to you all by the way rachels got lots of hugs she will share them out cause she is a good girl like that xxxxxxxxxx

Sarah Sheward December 12, 2008

WISH WE COULD BE TOGETHER
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Thinking of you
Makes the miles disappear,
Together we're looking at bright decorations,
Enjoying what we like to do,
Thinking of you makes the miles disappear~
For you're missed very much
All year through…

So just because you're
Far away, don't think
For a moment that you're forgotten.
I'm thinking about you because loving thoughts travel far,
And wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a New Year
Full of wonderful things
Wish we could be together.


*♥* MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL IN HEAVEN *♥*

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Elizabeth Pope December 12, 2008

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XXMERRY CHRISTMASXX

Lianne Bee Leahs Mommy (Friend) December 12, 2008

Beautiful memories are wonderful things
They last till the longest day
They never wear out
They never get lost
And can never be given away
To some you may be forgotten
To others a part of the past
But to us who loved and lost you
your memory will always last...
Gone are the days we used to share,
But in our hearts you are always there,
The gates of memory will never close,
We miss you more than anyone knows,
With tender love and deep regret,
We who love you will never forget.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Fran Hutton Fionas Mum (Step Mum) December 11, 2008

I will lend you, for a little time,
A child of mine, He said.
For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.


It may be six or seven years,
Or twenty-two or three.
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?


He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his stay be brief.
You'll have his lovely memories,
As solace for your grief.


I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught down there,
I want this child to learn.


I've looked the wide world over,
In search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.


Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labour vain.
Nor hate me when I come
To take him home again?


I fancied that I heard them say,
'Dear Lord, Thy will be done!'
For all the joys Thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.


We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.


But should the angels call for him,
Much sooner than we've planned.
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
And try to understand.



Edgar Guest

Fran Hutton Fionas Mum (Step Mum) December 8, 2008

Today I touched your face again
and watched you for awhile,
I talked of things deep in my heart
and wished I could make you smile.

I rubbed your head and told you,
how proud I am of you,
For all the little things you did
and the way you did each one.

You show such courage daily
and you teach me how to live,
To make each moment count in life
and to give all I can give.

Did I tell you 'You're my hero'
when I saw you yesterday?
Or did it slip my mind
as I gently put you away?

I know your time on earth is done,
but it's how you lived each day,
You made the most of what you had
and always found a way,
To touch the hearts around you,
to love while you may.

I wish with all my heart right now,
the face I touched today,
Wasn't made of paper
or neatly placed away.

But I will put you on the shelf again
for all the world to see,
I'll talk to you tomorrow
just like I do each day.
And I'll tell you 'You're my hero'
as I gently walk away.

Love to you always, and especially now as Christmas is approaching and our loved ones who cannot be with us are constantly in our thoughts.
I'm sorry I have not been on lately, having quite a hard time with money and health problems, and in case I don't get on before Xmas I want to wish all my GTS friends and their angels a very merry Christmas, and here's to the New Year.....may it be all that you wish for and more.

All my love, Mel. xxxxxxx

Mel Xxxxx December 5, 2008

MERRY CHRISTMAS angel in heaven
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_________I Hope You Have A Nice Day On
________Christmas Day, Filled With Lots Of
_______Angel Time.......And Of Course Eating
______Lots Of Nice Foods, And Candies. I Hope
_____That Santa Is Good To You As Well And He
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lots of love elizabeth xxxxx

Elizabeth Pope December 4, 2008

xxxx sending our angels love xxxx

sending love to al the angels always xxxxxxxx

sending special love to Alisha xxxxxxxx

X Alishas Auntie Kates Friend X (Auntie) December 4, 2008

I lost my brother through cot death when he was 6months old. My mum was feeding him his bottle when it happened. He never got to meet me or my older brother but i know hes looking down on us

Rachel Herbert November 28, 2008

WELL WELL IS IT SNOWING WHERE YOU ARE HOPE YOU WRAP UP NICE AND WARM HELP EACH OTHER WITH THE BUTTONS THEY CAN BE HARD FOR LITTLE FINGERS CANT THEY DONT FORGET YOUR GLOVES BABIES SPEAK TO YOU SOON LOTS OF LOVE SARAH XXXXXXX

Sarah Sheward November 21, 2008
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